"If it is to be, it is up to me"

"If it is to be, it is up to be" is a qoute I live by. It say basically if u want something to happen you have to make it happen yourself. To me it means you should depend on yourself to get thing done, and not depend on other people. This was also the motto for my eleamentry graduation. They were trying to tell us that they wont always be there, that sometimes we have to struggle on our own in order to be to be successful in life. If you can grasp that concept there is nothing that can stop you from being extremely successful.